How Do I Feel Bundle Set - Wildling Books
How Do I Feel Bundle Set - Wildling Books
How Do I Feel Bundle Set - Wildling Books
How Do I Feel Bundle Set - Wildling Books
How Do I Feel Bundle Set - Wildling Books
How Do I Feel Bundle Set - Wildling Books
How Do I Feel Bundle Set - Wildling Books
How Do I Feel Bundle Set - Wildling Books

How Do I Feel Bundle Set

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SAVE 10% and grab the How Do I Feel Bundle which includes:

  • The best-selling book, How Do I Feel? A Dictionary of Emotions for Children with 60+ definitions to help children identify and understand their emotions 
  • The How Do I Feel? Boxed Card Set with over 60 emotion cards 
  • The How Do I Feel? Emotions Explorer Worksheet - Free download
  • The How Do I Feel? Poster set with two A1 posters which include all 63 emotion illustrations from the book.  The posters are folded down into an A4 envelope.

HOW DO I FEEL?  The best-selling book set.

Storylines Notable Books 2021 - Non-Fiction Winner

With 60+ definitions to help improve emotional literacy. This HUGE hardcover book with over 140 pages, is all about our children learning to recognise and label emotions and feelings.

Join Aroha and her friends as they share how different emotions might feel in the body and how each emotion might be helpful. This emotions dictionary is all about helping children find the words for how they truly feel. Learning to recognise and label our emotions correctly is such an important skill for life. 

Giving our children this language helps to build emotional literacy. It is a gift to give children the tools to know how to recognise what they truly feel and that is it okay to feel all emotions. When they know that no emotion is ‘good’ or ‘bad’ and that all emotions provide messages, then it takes away any attachment to that emotion being part of who they are.

We may have experienced this ourselves being labelled ‘naughty’ or ‘out of control’ due to feeling angry a lot. However, this behaviour is just a way for a child to communicate. Diving deeper into why they are acting that way, why they may be feeling the things they are, can help us find some answers with our child. It can also help us find ways to help them empower themselves with tools to feel better.

Use this book to start conversations about different emotions. If you can, give examples of things you have experienced. When you see a child experiencing an emotion, help your child label it. “Are you feeling ... right now?”

This book can be used with children from 5 years of age up to 100+ as everyone might get something from the book. 

There are over 200 emotions and so we couldn't include them all in just one book, however, this book is the most extensive book about emotions for children.

Hardcover - full colour

Pages - 145

Size - 216mm x 280mm (Landscape)

Recommended Age - 5 years - 100 years+


It is important to us to use packaging that does not add to plastic waste issues that we have in the world.  We use cardboard boxes that can be re-used in your garden as a great weed mat or they can be recycled with your paper recycling.  We also use a brown eco tape which can go into your compost as well.

Christmas Shipping Details

We would love a holiday this year and so whilst we can still accept orders over the Christmas break, we wont be dispatching orders over the following time frame:

Friday 22nd December 2023 - Sunday 7th January 2024

New Zealand orders have until the 19th of December (urban addresses) to ensure you receive by Christmas. We cannot guarantee parcels will reach Australia or International destinations from 1st December 2023.


Free urban/residential delivery NZ wide on all orders over $70. 

Free rural delivery NZ wide on all orders over $100

Orders under $70 to urban/residential addresses, shipping is $6.95 NZ wide. 

Orders under $100 to rural addresses, shipping is $9.50 NZ wide (ps.  the actual cost to us for rural sends is $15!! so we subsidise this shipping as much as we can). 💕

We will dispatch your order within 1-3 working days and you will receive an email confirmation with tracking details.  

Orders are shipped and tracked via Post Haste couriers and expected delivery within NZ is 1-3 working days, 3-5 working days for rural deliveries.

Please do NOT provide a PO Box address as Post Haste do not deliver to them. 


Orders to Australia are sent via either NZ Post which is non-tracked standard international airmail or Australian Post E-Parcel which is partially tracked and both charged at a flat $12. We heavily subsidise the shipping to Australia. If you order an item that is a pre-order or out of stock, your order will be sent altogether when all items are in stock. 

Expected delivery timeframe to Australia is 10-20 working days. 

Rest of the World

Orders are sent via NZ Post which is non-tracked standard international airmail charged depending on the amount of books/weight.
Expected delivery to 10-20 working days. However, since Covid 19 deliveries are taking a lot longer than usual, some up to 20-30 working days.

Returns Policy

Wildling Books wish all our customers to receive their products in perfect order. If there is something wrong with the product you have received or if your delivery is not correct, please contact us immediately at If you send us an email, please include as many details as possible including your order number and photographic evidence of any damage, and in some cases a photograph of the packaging itself. Please ensure you keep your delivery until the return process is complete.

No refunds, returns or exchanges will be processed unless contact has been made about any issues within seven (7) working days of receipt of your item. We may be able to extend this time under special circumstances, but please make contact as soon as you notice any problems so we can remedy the situation for you. We do not refund purchases on the basis of changing your mind.

There are no refunds or returns available for ebooks or printables, so please choose carefully when ordering. We may ask for you to return the product in which case, we will refund the value of the purchased product, but we do not have to refund the value of the shipping. If you are required to return the product, you must pay for the shipping to return the goods and this must also be arranged by yourself. The goods are your responsibility until they reach our office. Please ensure you pack the return safely to prevent any damage to the products or boxes. New Zealand customers are protected by the Consumer Guarantees Act.

Customer Reviews

Based on 38 reviews
Alison Laverty
Early days yet however my miss 9 is reading and identifying some.

Early days yet however my miss 9 is reading and identifying some.

melissa Rogers
Best resource for families

The book is truly amazing. From the gorgeous thick high quality pages which are such a blessing to how all feelings are helpful. It lives on our kitchen bench with the cards and it's really helping myself (adhd) and my 2 kids (asd and adhd).

Lisa Thacker
Beautiful set

We received our bundle very quickly after it was dispatched and it is absolutely beautiful. The illustrations and colors are gorgeous and the explanations and definitions are wonderful. I love how it explains how this emotion may feel in your body - this can be tricky for kids to understand but the explanations make it really easy for kids to get. Thanks for these awesome products!

Haley Booth

Such an amazing resource… I work as a therapist and I have used the book with clients of all ages. Love it 😊

Anna de Jong
Great set

We’ve loved using the cards together with the encyclopaedia. My daughter brings it out occasionally when she’s feeling a mood that she can’t describe and we talk about it and try figure it out together. We’ve both learned a lot already!